Better Massages At Home

Attitude is more important than technique

• Your technique will get better
• Be playful / make it fun
• Be curious – this is really important

Step out of your comfort zone.
If you always give backrubs, massage something different.

• When massaging seated seem odd (try it)
• When you always massage deep (learn how to flow)
• When every massage leads to sex, talk to each other and agree that it will only be a massage (see what happens next…)
• Break patterns, its good for you

Your relationship needs play & lots of it.

• Be silly & curious
• Make it cheeky & intimate
• Don’t get caught in a trap of always fixing problems

Becoming your partner’s “practitioner” builds resentment over time.

There are professionals who are better than you at that job.

After learning relaxation massage, become exceptional with one deep tissue technique. Choose a body part:

• Learn where the knot is
• Learn how to release it
• Practice often

And now include that with your relaxation massage. Repeat the process with another body part.

Sex is the default “next step” when massaging at home.

Don’t stop massaging when the sex gets boring – break the pattern.

• Enjoy the sex in the beginning, its so good!
• When its predictable its time to change
• Try no sex (only connection). There are secrets to be discovered about your relationship when you try a new approach.

This is really hard to do in a relationship…
But it’s more powerful than you know

• Lead by example
• Don’t stop
• Don’t become resentful
• Keep on giving

It does work, have faith in your partner that they will see your effort