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5 Things You Shouldn’t do When Giving Back Rubs

My name is Denis Merkas, I’m an Australian Massage Therapist and I specialise in teaching couples how to give amazing back rubs. Here’s 5 things you shouldn’t do when giving your hubby / wife, boyfriend / girlfriend a back rub. Don’t Heat the oil in a microwave I’ve heard stories of people warming up their […]

August 5, 2015

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Are you any good at back rubs?

Applying oil. It’s one thing most couples get wrong. Learn how to apply massage oil the sexy way with these simple massage tips from expert Denis Merkas.

July 25, 2015

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5 Things You Shouldn’t do When Giving Back Rubs

August 5, 2015

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Are you any good at back rubs?

Applying oil. It’s one thing most couples get wrong. Learn how to apply massage oil the sexy way with these simple massage tips from expert Denis Merkas.

July 25, 2015

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5 Things You Shouldn’t do When Giving Back Rubs

My name is Denis Merkas, I’m an Australian Massage Therapist and I specialise in teaching couples how to give amazing back rubs.

Here’s 5 things you shouldn’t do when giving your hubby / wife, boyfriend / girlfriend a back rub.

Don’t Heat the oil in a microwave
- I’ve heard stories of people warming up their massage oil in the microwave. *facepalm* Don’t ever be one of these people…
- This is a clever way to score a trip to the hospital. Hot oil will burn you and your partner… don’t heat it up.
- Warm hands is all you need, the oil will heat up in your hands almost immediately. Some people like to keep the massage oil bottle in hot water. I don’t like this… it’s messy and has the potential of you spilling hot water over yourself, your partner and onto your floor. I’m a big fan of keeping things simple.
- I’ll say it again: Warm hands is all you need.
Don’t drip oil onto your partner’s body
- This looks sexy in the movies… but in real life, cold oil dripping onto warm skin feels terrible.
- During an interview once, a massage therapist who was applying for a job with me was preparing to give me a short massage. I lay on the massage table, I’m super relaxed and really looking forward to a good massage… and she started by pouring cold oil onto my back! I remember it vividly, what a HUGE disappointment. My expectations of a good massage was shattered. I leaped off the table and pointed to the door, gave her two words… “Get. Out!”
Don’t use your thumbs
- A rookie mistake = overusing your thumbs. I see it all the time with couples and with new professional massage therapists – they make their thumbs their “go-to move.” This is a bad idea.
- Your thumbs should be your A-Game. Keep them as your secret weapon. They can make an appearance early on in your massage routine, but only to give your partner a taste of what will happen later on. Save them till the end, and only bring them out AFTER your partner has started drooling. Follow this piece of advice and you’ll be giving massages that are still raved about months later!
Don’t fix your partner’s problems
- Couples massage should be fun, for play and date night, to connect, to laugh and share new experiences, and not take things too seriously. As soon as you take on the role of therapist the dynamic changes. Don’t try to fix your partner’s ailments, leave this to the professional – they are worth their weight in gold. The right practitioner has the experience and knowledge to deal with problem areas. You don’t.
- Keep your massages fun and focused on creating a relaxing / intimate atmosphere, this is something a massage therapist cannot give your partner. Learn how to make your partner melt and you’ll have a happy and extremely satisfying relationship.
Don’t have expectations
- Give back rubs because you want to do something nice for your partner. Expecting anything in return, including a back rub or sex can lead to disappointment. Happiness comes from kindness and generosity, remember that – it’ll serve you well in the future. Anything you receive in return as a result of your back rub is a bonus.

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August 5, 2015

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Are you any good at back rubs?

My name is Denis Merkas, I’m an Australian Massage Therapist and I specialise in teaching couples how to give amazing back rubs.

How good are your back rubs? It’s easy when you know how to use your hands properly. In this post I’m going to show you two of my techniques which you can follow along to… this feels like heaven and you can do it right now! No oil or no massage table needed.

Today’s challenge, let’s see if we can make your partner melt in under 2-minutes! Ready…

BELOW: You’ll find two of my very own massage techniques. I’ll be demonstrating on my wife, Emma – you can follow along, I’ll talk you through it step-by-step. This video comes directly from the Melt Video Series, a complete series of techniques for couples.

Gents, this is stuff that wins you “the husband of the year” awards, remember this it’ll work wonders for your anniversary, for birthdays and Valentine’s Day…

Got 2-minutes?

The goal, a surprise head rub that’s good enough to make the person you love drool, in record time too. Massage is easy when you know the right way to use your hands.

We recommend you watch the video at least once before grabbing your partner and hitting the challenge.

How to sit for this challenge:

There are a few ways to position yourself; essentially you want your partner’s head to be at about chest height / just below. For this challenge, which only takes a few minutes, you can sit on the couch with your partner sitting between your legs in front of you. If that’s uncomfortable, you can stand, while your partner sits on a chair.

Anniversary, Birthday or Valentines

Special occasions like these deserve the full back rub experience, we’re going to need to step it up. You’re going to need more tips!

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July 25, 2015

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5 Things You Shouldn’t do When Giving Back Rubs

Are you any good at back rubs?

5 Things You Shouldn’t do When Giving Back Rubs

Are you any good at back rubs?

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5 Things You Shouldn’t do When Giving Back Rubs

Don’t Heat the oil in a microwave

Don’t drip oil onto your partner’s body

Don’t use your thumbs

Don’t fix your partner’s problems