Nice! You’ve arrived here to create a surprise for your partner. Many couples use Melt for occassions such as a birthday, anniversary and valentine’s day. Today we’ll chat about setting-up your massage to celebrate any occasion together.
You’re creating memories – moments your partner will share through stories with friends and family. And reminisce with you over years to come.
Let’s make that happen!
Is your partner a surprises kinda person?
If yes, we start with a blindfold!
Shutting down one of the senses heightens others. A blindfold helps create anticipation – we can use anticipation to our advantage.
Before the massage; have you ever experienced a food pairing?
A sensory explosion! Blindfold your partner – guide them through a tasting, let them guess the pairing. Ideas for you:
A clever prelude to your massage
It extends the experience and throws your partner off the scent of the main event – your massage!
A surprise requires trust, if you’re partner doesn’t like surprises dont use a blindfold. Keep in mind, trust is earned and your taste experience is a clever way to gain that.
During the tasting (still blindfolded), present Melt’s oil bottle to them. It has a soft waxy / luxiurios feel to it. Have them guess what it could be… what’s about to happen next!
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This could be your segue into having them remove their top. Or swapping their top for a towel.
This is Dan (the husband), we love the part about the ‘mushy mushy Yum Yum bits’
We get feedback like this from couples often. The mushy mushy Yum Yum’s are just one of the 17 techniques you’ll find in the Melt Video series – silly names are easy to remember. It’s a great way for couples to connect and makes cumminicating your needs much better – something like… “babe, can you spend just a minute or two rubbing my mushy mushy Yum Yum’s?”
A clean space is important. Tidy up as much as possible and vacuum the floor – we’ll be sitting on it.
Dim lights and a warm space is essential.
Scented candles work well.
We prefer candles over scented oils as the scents you enjoy are subjective. It’s less offensive to have a scent in the air, than it is on your partner’s skin. It might be helpful to sleuth your way into the scents that appeal to your partner.
Quiz your partner, look at their perfume as hints – many households already have scented candles in the cupboard – use those!
Be organised, have everything you need close to you. Once you start the experience there should be no reason you leave your partner unattended while blindfolded – and never stop a massage until its finishing time.
Distractions like phones should be removed from the room.
Its okay if your partner notices a scenario is set, it might help with earning their trust before a blindfold goes on – it shows that you’ve made an effort into creating something special.
Confidence makes your massage exponentially better! Here’s how to build it.
Watch all the videos in the Basic Series before the day – you’re aiming to give your partner the 5 minute massage routine at the end of the Basic Series. If you want to extend the massage you can double up on the techniques – I’ll also give you more technique options to follow in a moment if you want to extend the experience.
5 Minute Massage Routine
Your first massage begins here. It’s easy and lifts your confidence immediately. Most couples find this massage turns into foreplay – just try and resist it. Repeat the entire routine twice to extend your play time!
Series 1 is what you’ll be studying. I’ve noted the techniques you’ll be learning below. All the videos are short and you can binge watch them immediately.
We made The Basic Series easy to learn!
IT’S SHORT. LEARN IN 20-MINS
The Basic Series takes 20-minutes to learn. To be ready for this experience we recommend spending (20-mins per day) over a few days to get familiar.
Purchase Melt at least 1 week before setting up your experience – don’t leave it to the last minute, your massage will be rubbish. Preparation is everything! When learning, visualise massaging your partner – it’ll help.
Your massage will take 5 minutes from beginning to end. There are only 3 techniques, but massage loves repetition. Repeat the massage routine 3-5 times to extend your massage – they’ll love it.
Hold the hug at the end of the Basic Massage Stroke – trust us on this. The Neck and Back Massage are exceptional, but that “HUG” during a massage is where it’s at, it’s so good
Will it be cheeky or chilled?
Most couples use the Basic Series to seduce their partner. Don’t worry, our videos are PG (it’s clean and classy). Decide if this is something you want to do – it’s important to read your partner and make sure you are receiving signals indicating it’s okay to move into something more sensual. Watch for:
The way we sit allows you to be close to their ear. Whisper if you have things you want to say.
Breathe normally – through your nose, your partner will feel this on their skin. Your breath on oiled skin will provide a cooling effect, and then your hands contouring over this area provides warmth. It feels like heaven!
It’s a sensory explosion in a small massage.
You have something special here. The contouring techniques you learn in the Basic Series work anywhere on the body, including your partner’s front.
Massage Techniques Inside the Basic Series…
0.1 How to Apply Oil
The beginning of your massage is so important! In this tutorial we learn how to start a massage the right way.
0.2 The Basic Massage Stroke
Here we learn contouring & rhythm n’ flow. Two of the most important massage techniques & concepts you’ll ever learn.
0.3 Back Massage Stroke
A long, broad and strong massage stroke – perfect to release the initial layer of muscular stress in the back.
0.4 Neck Massage
Neck massage is something that ever couple should learn how to perfect! This is the easy way to massage the neck.
0.5 Bonus Tips
Things you need to know before giving your first massage.
5 Minute Massage Routine
Your first massage begins here. It’s easy and lifts your confidence immediately. Most couples find this massage turns into foreplay – just try and resist it. Repeat the entire routine twice to extend your play time!
Okay… you’re telling me you’re confident with your hands and you want to make your first massage a little more complex and longer than the 5 minute routine. I got you.
Purchase Melt’s MasterClass today – you’ll receive all the videos in Series 1, 2 & 3. Look at the following tutorials:
Thumbs are easy to remember and will feel natural to pick up – it’s okay to move to the advanced section early on. Although it might be worthwhile practicing on a friend beforehand (thumbs techniques are doable through clothing)
2.5 Hairdresser & No Brainer
No different to the scalp rub an apprentice hair dresser gives you. Slightly aggressive and somewhat unempathic. It’s exactly what we need.
3.2 Money Shot (Thumbs)
Knowing this technique is what separates the professionals from the amateurs. It’s an exceptional piece of tactile therapy.
3.3 Spine | Train Tracks (Thumbs)
Deep tissue thumb techniques on the muscles that support your spine… an incredible release that you need to feel. Leave this till the end.
3.5 Golf Balls (Kneading)
Deep tissue & rhythmical on the shoulders – YES PLEASE!! This is a tutorial that you want to learn and remember.
Let’s say you’ve finished your first massage! Blindfold + tasting experience and the best massage in town – well done.
What’s next?
We’ll – this it just keeps getting better!
There are knots and areas of tension to work on. We’ve got deep tissue techniques for you including thumbs and heel of your palm. There’s more intimacy to explore, a 15-minute massage routine that’s to die for, and a 30-min routine for you advanced couples.
It’s about time that you receive a massage too!
Let’s swap roles over.
Things are about to get a whole lot of amazing right now!
Expect to hear noises like “Hmm” & “Ahh…”
This course will focus on releasing muscle tension and knots. If you’ve made it this far down the page – you already know that it’s one of the best feelings in the world! Expect both of you making noises like “Hmm” and “Ahh!”
Also, this course will help with:
HOW IT WORKS?
Take your time with this course. Each technique takes only 4 minutes to learn, but you’ll want to practice it many times over. Each time getter better and more familar with your partner’s body.
Many couples practice one technique per night. You can combine your favourite technique with your Basic Massage Routine, or keep studying the techniques until your ready for the 15-minute massage routine at the end of this course.
Your Massage at the end of this course combines both therapeutic techniques with intimate stokes making, it’s unlike anythign you’ve exer experienced before.
Inside Series 2 of Melt’s MasterClass
2.1 Making Your Partner Drool
Congratulations, you’re at the Highlight Series. This is where the magic begin, this is where you Make Your Partner Melt!
2.2 Golf Balls
This is the most common place we massage our partner, the shoulders. Feel, find and then begin a gentle release.
2.3 Train Tracks
When massaging over this area, it’ll feel as if you’re driving over train tracks. On some people, it might even sound the same!
2.4 The Money Shot
The hardest technique you’ll learn but one of the best releases you’ll ever give. Practice this, often.
2.5 Hairdresser & No Brainer
No different to the scalp rub an apprentice hair dresser gives you. Slightly aggressive and somewhat unempathic. It’s exactly what we need.
2.6 Cat Walk + Mushy-Mushy Yum-Yums
A simple way to walk your hands down your partner’s back that leads into the Mushy Mushy, Yum Yum bits. This is massage gold!
2.7 Bloody Hurts
This is one of those techniques that are good, and then it’s bad… and then it become “oh, so good!!!”
2.8 Brand New Arms
Release all the tension in your arms, leaving you feeling light and relaxed. So good!
15 Minute Massage Routine
This includes everything you’ve learned in the Basic Course and this Knot and Highlights course into one fabulous massage routine. By this stage you’re already fantastic at giving massages!
For The Advanced Couples – Is That You?”
Deep Tissue – Here you’ll learn how to use your thumbs properly, including fingertips and heel of your palm. We show you how to use deep tissue so that yout hands don’t hurt.
At the end of this course, we collect every single massage stroke from ALL 3 courses and create one brilliant massage that spans over 30-minutes! It’s really good.
You’ll flow from relaxation to deep tissue and back again. There’ll be moments of intimacy, you’ll highlight on connection, focus on releasing muscles to the point where your partner melts in your hands, perfectly setting you up to move back into an initmate massage.
For the couple that make it to the end of this course, we applaud you. The dedication to your relationship is an inspiration!
Inside The Final Series of Melt’s MasterClass
3.1 Ski Jump (Thumbs)
The ski jump trigger point is often responsible for headaches that come from your neck.
3.2 Money Shot (Thumbs)
Knowing this technique is what separates the professionals from the amateurs. It’s an exceptional piece of tactile therapy.
3.3 Spine | Train Tracks (Thumbs)
Deep tissue thumb techniques on the muscles that support your spine… an incredible release that you need to feel. Leave this till the end.
3.4 Bloody Hurts (Thumbs)
This is a technical technique that releases tension in your arms and rotator cuff muscles. It’s a difficult one to master but worth it.
3.5 Golf Balls (Kneading)
Deep tissue & rhythmical on the shoulders – YES PLEASE!! This is a tutorial that you want to learn and remember.
3.5 Upper Arms (Kneading)
Continue working your kneading game, it’s no different to kneading dough and it feels fabulous.
30 Minute Massage Routine
Follow along bringing everything you’ve learned in this entire course together into one perfect 30 minute massage. This is exceptional!
I was inspired to buy Melt as it came highly recommended and because of the mention that it was ‘clean’ and ‘romantic’
“I would never have known how to build a massage in the way that Denis and Emma demonstrate, and I really appreciate the fact that Melt is kept clean, sophisticated and romantic, and does not stray into the kind of video that I am not interested in. Any couple would find Melt a really special massage teaching video. In addition to the massage element, it was just a really nice way to learn to connect physically in a romantic, tender way. Melt would be a perfect treat for a memorable romantic night in, and allows you to connect with your spouse whether you have plenty of time, or only a little. We absolutely love it, and will use it regularly for years to come. Thank you Denis and Emma!”
A great way for us to be together and unwind, and for just ten to fifteen minutes lose track of everything…
“I watched the trailer video and was hooked, I bought the series, watched the first set, went home that evening and tried it with my wife. She loved it, I loved it. It is just a great way for us to be together and unwind, and for just ten to fifteen minutes lose track of everything and intensely focus on each other. Afterwards you feel so relaxed, and the stress of the day seems to have vanished.”
I’ll be your massage coach.
I’ve been teaching couples massage for 15 years, and I’m totally in love with my job.
Next to me is Emma – the gorgeous model that I demonstrate on. She loves massages too!!
My goal is to get you having as much fun as possible in the shortest amount of time.
I dedicate most of my time on developing the right communication to help you learn massage in the best possible way.
Melt as my artwork. It’s 100% original, developed specifically for couples. In fact, it was orginially developed to be used solely for my own relationship – to help connect and bond my partner and me. It allowed for us to explore each others body in a way thats both relaxing, comfortable and intimate.
Come join me inside Melt – your relationship will get so much out of this. It’s so good for you.
Denis’ class is live right now! You’ll get instant access as soon as you sign up.
Massage routines are the best! We combine techniques to create a brilliant back rub:
The videos are streamed online via your account. They’ve been structured in a format to help you pick up the techniques fast! But rules are meant to be broken… you can watch any tutorial at any time and still learn a useful technique. For beginners, best results are achieved by following the videos consecutively.
From beginning to end, it’s one hour and 22 minutes. But you go at your own pace. The Basic Series has been created for you to complete in one night as your first massage. Afterwards most couples practice the one / two techniques over and over – each time getting better, learning more about that technique. Melt is something that you keep coming back to over the years. In time you’ll master the techniques and develop your own massage. Then come back to the videos and pick up on small details missed the first time around. You can choose to practice any technique you want in any order.
Denis’ tutorials are pre-recorded. What you receive is the culmination of 8 years working in live courses with thousands of couples. Seeing what techniques work, which ones didn’t and figuring out the best way to teach each technique so you can pick it up as quickly and easily as possible.
Routines are downloadable for annual and lifetime packages. The tutorials are only available for streaming from your account at any time.
Melt comes highly recommended by Psychologists, Relationship Counselors, Marriage Authors & Writers
“I’m actually using these as wedding presents!”
“I like helping people get their marriages off to a good start, so I’ll put an envelope with instructions on how to access the video series in a basket, along with some massage oil, some candles, and a CD with really relaxing music. I think it’ll make a unique and awesome wedding gift!”
“One of the things I like about Melt is that it builds on a lot of the fundamentals of sensate focus”
“Melt allows you to passively share quality time to concentrate only on each other, replacing feelings of stress and anxiety with relaxation through mutual touch, and communicating with your partner about what feels good.”
“Massage speaks to several love languages at once”
Here’s a few of the things I love about the Melt Video Series:
“What a great way to spend an evening together!”
“The videos are well done, easy to follow, and straight-forward. Melt gives you a great foundation for a night where the massage is the main event, or a night when the massage sets the stage for even more.”
