So you’ve tried massaging your partner before and it didn’t work out. Your hands got tired. Your back started hurting. The massage felt boring because you only know a couple of techniques. So you stopped.

You’re not bad at this. You were never taught it. Tired hands, a sore back, running out of moves after five minutes, none of that is talent. It is what happens when nobody showed you how to use body weight instead of your hands.

We share all the secrets practitioners use to make massage feel easy. Even a beginner with no experience can learn this.

It’s that voice in your head that says I’m not attractive or desirable enough to lay out in front of my partner.

That voice goes away when you use towels to cover up, dim the lights and play your favourite music. It helps you settle into the massage, and as soon as you feel that muscle release let go, those voices fade.

You both work all day. By the time the day is done, you’re done. You keep saying you’ll do it this weekend, then the weekend goes too.

It was never really about the time. Ten minutes has always been there. “No time” is just the easier thing to say. None of that makes you lazy, it makes you human.

This fades the second your partner says “whoa, that feels so good.” Forget about perfect and chase that moment. You’ll make this happen in lesson 1.

I give and get nothing back. I’ll always be the one reaching for my partner, and when it’s not returned, I stop trying.

It’s normal in all relationships, there’s always one person with higher desire. Your partner will copy what you do. 10 minutes a night consistently is all you need. Even after 7 nights your partner will start saying “let me try this on you.”

Make it an experiment. Say nothing, follow the 10 minute consistency rule, and see how long it takes before your partner wants to swap over.

It’s not your fault, it’s because you’re waiting for the perfect moment. Social media makes it feel like it ought to be magical.

You don’t need an expensive villa in Bali. You don’t need a sunset and a summer breeze. You need connection, in the comfort of home. It’s not a performance, it’s a genuine experience with your partner.

What Instagram doesn’t show you is the jet-lag, the stomach bug, the mosquitoes and the humidity. The longer you wait, the more you miss out.

We’ve kept it classy and tasteful. Most kids just want to join in, they want the attention.

Apart from the chest and glute massage, all courses are PG and won’t leave you on guard. The courses are filmed with only hints of intimacy, we don’t want to distract you with footage on screen.

The massage is meant to be an experience you share, not a screen you stare at.